Beyond the Binary · Family Mediation Services
Family circumstances rarely fit a standard template. Beyond the Binary brings family violence expertise and an understanding of diverse family structures to questions of power, safety, meaningful participation and children’s lives.
Based in Perth, Western Australia
Family Dispute Resolution is more than a conversation between people with competing positions. Family violence, unequal resources, disability, communication needs and the history of a relationship can shape what each person is able to say, refuse or agree to.
Process design is part of the professional task. The starting question is whether FDR is suitable and what process would support safe, informed and meaningful participation. Suitability requires careful assessment and can change as new information emerges. People of every gender are treated with dignity. Assessment focuses on conduct, patterns and impact without assuming who has caused or experienced harm based on gender.
The thinking behind the practice
Kellene is a master-qualified family violence specialist whose work spans practice leadership, child safety, protective behaviours, counselling, governance and the design of resources that people can actually use. Her Master of Domestic and Family Violence Practice included research into family violence responses in Australian family law and Family Court processes. She brings this depth to the assessment of power, safety, each person’s ability to negotiate freely and the likely effects of proposals on children.
A person described as “difficult” may need a different communication method. A dispute described as “high conflict” may require an examination of coercion and resistance. A parenting proposal that appears balanced on paper may place an unworkable burden on a child. These are questions for assessment, not conclusions made from a label.
02 / Specialist practice
These concerns often overlap. The purpose of identifying them is to ask better questions, not to fit a family into another category.
Attention to patterns of violence and control, including financial and systems abuse, parenting used to extend control, fear, retaliation and unequal bargaining power. In some circumstances FDR should not proceed.
Communication, sensory needs, processing time, support requirements and executive functioning can affect participation and the practicality of parenting arrangements. Difference should be understood in context.
LGBTQIA+ families, donor conception, non-biological parenting, gender diversity and kinship arrangements can raise questions that standard assumptions about family roles do not adequately address.
A working practice framework
Proposed outcomes are considered against safety, agency, child impact and workability.
03 / FDR explained
Family Dispute Resolution is a facilitated process in which people affected by separation consider options and may reach their own agreement. The practitioner does not decide the outcome for them. An accredited practitioner must assess whether mediation sessions are appropriate before they begin and while they continue.
Consider each person’s account, family structure, children’s needs, safety, communication, culture and the history relevant to the dispute. Intake and assessment are distinct from a mediation session.
The 2025 FDR Regulations require consideration of family violence, safety, bargaining power, child-abuse risk, health, undue influence and anything else materially affecting the ability to negotiate freely.
Where FDR is appropriate, arrangements may respond to communication and safety needs. These could include separate sessions, online delivery, shorter meetings or legal support. An adjustment cannot make every matter suitable. FDR must end if a participant asks to stop or the practitioner is no longer satisfied it is appropriate.
Consider the child’s safety and daily experience, each person’s agency, and whether an arrangement can actually be carried out. A parenting plan can record an agreement, but is not itself a legally enforceable court order.
What FDR can and cannot do
FDR is a regulated process. The decision to conduct it, and any certificate, depends on the law and an individual assessment.
FDR can help people discuss proposals and record a parenting plan. A practitioner does not make parenting orders or guarantee an agreement. People seeking enforceable orders should obtain independent legal advice about consent orders.
Only an accredited FDR practitioner can issue a section 60I certificate, and only where the legal requirements are met. A certificate enables a parenting application to be filed; it is not a finding about family violence or who is right. In some WA matters involving parents who were never married, a section 66H certificate is used instead.
Kellene is not a lawyer. FDR can include procedural information and referrals for independent legal advice, not advice about a party’s legal rights or likely court outcome. FDR communications have statutory confidentiality protections with important exceptions, including certain child safety circumstances. The rules will be explained before sessions begin.
General information based on the 2025 FDR Regulations and Attorney-General’s Department certificate guidance. It is not advice about an individual matter.
Children and the process
Children need not be physically present for their experience to be central. Parenting proposals affect routines, transitions, relationships, schooling, health, sensory demands and safety. The question is what an arrangement would mean for this particular child.
04 / For professionals
Kellene works across the point where family violence practice meets children’s safety, service systems and family law. Her experience includes leading an integrated family abuse response, analysing perpetrator patterns and post-separation abuse, developing safeguarding and risk processes, and advising on governance, quality and accountability. She has worked in remote Aboriginal health for six years and brings substantial experience in compliance, policy and service improvement.
Through her broader advocacy and consultancy work, she has developed protective behaviours and respectful relationships education, facilitated individual and group learning, and created practical resources for children, families and professionals. Her draft FDR intake guide and WA client resource directory demonstrate the same attention to clear information, accessibility and real referral pathways.
Professional enquiries can include specialist consultation, training, practice frameworks, resource development and review of organisational responses to coercive control, child safety and inclusion. Projects are defined around the question, audience and expertise required.
05 / About Kellene
Accredited Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner · Domestic and family violence practice leader · Founder, Beyond the Binary
Kellene holds a Master of Domestic and Family Violence Practice, a Graduate Diploma of Domestic and Family Violence Practice and a Graduate Certificate of Counselling. Her Master’s research examined responses to domestic and family violence in Australian family law and Family Court processes. She is accredited as a Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner by the Australian Government Attorney-General’s Department. Her FDR registration number is F2005193.
Her wider experience includes family violence practice leadership, child safeguarding, policy, governance, quality systems and six years working in remote Aboriginal health. She is also the author of Lara’s Light Lit by Lanterns, a children’s book about recognising and speaking up about unsafe secrets. Her postgraduate study and practice work bring together coercive control, children’s safety and the recognition of diverse families.
Beyond the Binary grows from a concern that apparently neutral processes can overlook the circumstances that determine whether people can participate and whether children will be safe. The practice aims to bring those circumstances into view before decisions about process or agreement are made.
Education and professional development
A combination of family violence, counselling, child safety, policy and FDR-specific learning informs the practice. Formal awards and shorter specialist training are distinguished below.
Family Dispute Resolution practitioner training and supervised placement; Safe & Together Model Core Training; UWA coercive control microcredential; comprehensive family violence risk assessment training; Protective Behaviours Practitioner training; motivational interviewing in family violence practice; predominant aggressor identification; child voice and child-inclusive interviewing; and Homicide Timeline training.
Kellene is an accredited Family Dispute Resolution Practitioner, registration F2005193, a Professional Member of Resolution Institute and an accredited Protective Behaviours Practitioner. Her accreditation can be checked through the public FDR Register.
Introductory fee proposal · private planning draft
Proposed rates for the first six months after opening. Amounts are in Australian dollars and are the total payable price, including GST where applicable. Each person receives their own invoice unless another arrangement is agreed in writing.
| Service | What is included | Proposed fee |
|---|---|---|
| Initial enquiry | Up to 15 minutes to explain the service and next steps. This is not an assessment. | Free |
| Individual intake and assessment | Up to 75 minutes with each person, separately, including preparation for a suitability decision. | $220 per person |
| Parenting FDR session | Up to 3 hours of mediation, with standard preparation and a brief record of outcomes. | $450 per person |
| Further FDR session | Up to 90 minutes where another session is appropriate. | $240 per person |
| Written parenting plan | Drafting agreed parenting arrangements after FDR, when requested. | $220 total |
| Professional consultation | Training, practice resources or organisational consultation, scoped and quoted separately from client FDR. | $250 per hour |
For two people who each complete intake and attend one three-hour parenting session: $670 per person, or $1,340 in total. A written parenting plan would add $220 in total if requested.
The proposal reserves up to two matters each month for people experiencing financial hardship: $150 per person for intake and $300 per person for the first parenting session. Standard accessibility adjustments, such as written agendas, breaks or online attendance, do not carry a surcharge.
There is no separate charge for a section 60I or WA section 66H certificate where one is appropriate following the FDR process. A certificate is never guaranteed. Matters needing extensive document review, additional participants, lawyer-assisted FDR or property discussion would receive a separate written quote before work begins.
Intake is paid at booking. A mediation session is invoiced only after suitability assessment and before its date is confirmed. A session cancelled or rescheduled with at least two business days’ notice has no cancellation charge. A late cancellation may attract $75 charged only to the cancelling person, with exceptions for illness, caring needs or safety concerns. If the practitioner decides FDR should not proceed, unused mediation fees are refunded.
Country, lived experience and inclusion
Beyond the Binary Family Mediation Services acknowledges the Whadjuk people of Noongar Boodjar as the Traditional Owners of the land on which the practice is based. We pay respect to Elders past and present.
We acknowledge and apologise to Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples for the injustices and trauma of colonisation, including the Stolen Generations and policies and practices that forcibly removed children from their families, communities, culture and Country. We recognise the continuing strength of Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples and their connection to Country. Always was, always will be Aboriginal land.
Lived experience offers knowledge of how family violence, separation and service systems are encountered in daily life. Beyond the Binary values that knowledge while recognising that no one person’s experience stands for a whole community. Each family’s circumstances are heard on their own terms.
We welcome men, women and gender-diverse people, including Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander families, LGBTQIA+ families, neurodivergent and disabled people, and families formed through donor conception, kinship, blending and other relationships. Inclusion means understanding who belongs in a family, how each person communicates, and what supports safe and meaningful participation in their circumstances.
06 / Enquiries
For Family Dispute Resolution enquiries, referrals and professional enquiries, email Kellene:
kellene@beyondthebinarymediation.com
Each matter will begin with an individual assessment. A request for mediation does not mean that FDR will be appropriate, and family violence or child abuse may affect whether FDR is required before a parenting application.
